I’m fortunate to know quite a few folk out there who have radio shows and so on. Usually, due to my crazy work schedule and other rhythms of the day, I tend to miss these shows live. I’m usually playing catch-up in the 1-2 hour daily commutes to and from work, in which I’m spending long periods of time behind the wheel. One of the shows I frequently listen to is Candelo’s Corner. Candelo has no problem bringing up controversial topics and cultivating much-needed discussion. In his latest show, he invited the folks from Crescent City Conjure over to discuss a variety of important and interesting topics related to conjure and Palo. One of these was homosexuality and the role of women in Palo. This is a topic that’s been brought up more than once both on this blog as well as on Candelo’s show. It’s an important topic. Deeply important. It needs to be talked about more. It needs to be written about more.
As a transgender man I’ve faced the slings and barbs of both misogyny,
homophobia and transphobia. As the rights of same-sex couples come more into the spotlight, us transgender folk still have a long haul when it comes to acceptance in various places, as the latest ‘bathroom bills’ in various states have come to show. Some people out there may denounce me, may
call me invalid, or imply (or outwardly state) that I’m not a ‘real’ man and that nowhere else would I be taken seriously. Their words mean nothing to me, and they won’t change who I am or how I view myself. I am strong in my
ancestors, many of which were men and women who went to battle together
for a common cause. The true measure of a warrior is not what sits on
their chest or between their legs, or who they love, but in the strength they possess and
the skill with which they wield their weapon. Ultimately, the ones that have the problem are the ones who point their fingers. They have no effect on me, and it would be a waste of my time to address them. I have places to go, and Work to do.
The endpoint, what it all boils down to, is Spirit. As the speakers on the show pointed out–and something that my godmother and I have said time and again–is that while humans have their own agendas, Spirit speaks raw truth and comes out clear. If Spirit calls you to a certain role or path, then that is that. Gender politics have no place within the dictates of Spirit. If Spirit says you are not destined for a particular path or role, then there has to be a reason behind it. As I’ve said before, biology is not destiny. You are not defined by your genitalia or the structure of your body, but you are defined by Spirit by what’s inside, by who you are and what you’re capable of. I often ponder about how much talent had been strangled, how many candles snuffed, all in the name of machismo and festering ego. Look beyond the Meatpuppet Politics. There you’ll find Spirit speaking, and there you will find the truth. To do otherwise is to live in a darkness of one’s own making, and to impose that darkness on others is to feed the infection of ignorance and egotistical bullshit. It stifles the flame, twists the soul, and any spiritual group with that degree of rot is bound to fail, one way or another. Spirit alone is the final judge and arbiter. When the Bakulu speak, it is our obligation and our duty to listen, especially if we dare call ourselves priests, teachers, workers.
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